You’ve been invited to a friend or family member’s wedding, and you are a little unsure of what’s expected of you as a guest. First, know that you are a treasured person in the bride and groom’s lives; that’s precisely why they invited you!
I’m here to help you stay on the couple’s good side by teaching you how to be an amazing guest! By brushing up on the dos and don’ts of wedding guest etiquette, you will understand all the basic rules of attending a wedding.
Do RSVP
This is probably the number one rule that you can’t break: make sure you RSVP, even if you can’t attend. The happy couple is busy planning the wedding; they shouldn’t have to chase guests for a response. The sooner you respond, the better.
RSVPs will help the couple plan everything, including the venue space, food, and drinks. It’s important to include an accurate count of plus-ones, too.
Don’t Overlook the Dress Code
For this one, I’ll say yes, you absolutely need to respect the dress code, but don’t lose sight of who you are. What does that mean? Dress in a way that reflects your style but still fits the dress code. For example, if the dress code is formal or business casual but you love wearing cowboy boots, go ahead and wear them—just make sure they complement the overall attire.
If you’re unsure, no worries—I’ve got you covered with an example. Here’s an easy guide on how to pair your cowboy boots with wedding attire to give you a clear idea of what to do.
In some cases, the couple wants a very specific color scheme. This might include wearing all-black attire or colorful formal wear. Double-check the invite for as much information as possible about the dress code to satisfy the couple’s preferences.
Do Buy a Gift
The invitation will include details about the couple’s wedding registry and preferred gifts. Many newlyweds are starting their life together and need many household items to set up their new home.
I always lean on the gifting etiquette rules when choosing a present; this includes following the registry.
A wedding registry ensures the couple doesn’t receive duplicate items. Plus, you’re selecting something they actually need.
Don’t Overstep With Your Electronics
Some weddings are unplugged, meaning you should silence and tuck away your phone, especially during the ceremony. This helps you stay fully present, prevents blocking views for others, and keeps you out of the photographer’s way.
Also, avoid sharing photos or videos before the couple does on social media. Trust me, the professional photographer and videographer will capture far better shots than anything you can take with your phone!
Do Act Graciously
Weddings are about joy and celebration. Following the dos and don’ts of wedding etiquette will make you the perfect guest.
An easy rule to follow is to be gracious. Respect the wishes of the couple. Remember that events like this bring people from all walks of life together to celebrate a couple that they love
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